When you are angry, simply expressing your anger is not the same as sharing your heart. “You made me angry.” “Why do you always make things difficult for me?” When we speak like this, the other person may become defensive or respond with anger instead of reflecting on what happened.
Sharing your heart means not pouring out your anger, but explaining why you became angry and what you felt at that moment. For example, instead of saying, “You made me angry,” you can say, “When I was speaking, I felt that you were not listening to me. I felt ignored, and that hurt me. I think that pain came out as anger.”
It is the same between parents and children. Instead of saying, “Why don’t you ever listen to me?” a parent can say, “When you walked away without listening to me, I felt that you did not respect me. I was also worried and afraid that something might go wrong in your life. I think that is why I became angry.”
It is also the same between husband and wife. Instead of saying, “You do not love me,” you can say, “When I shared my difficulties with you, I felt that you did not understand my heart. Actually, I did not want advice first. I wanted to hear you say, ‘That must have been very difficult for you.’ I felt disappointed and became angry.”
Under anger, there may be sadness, fear, loneliness, a feeling of being ignored, or a desire to be loved and appreciated. Therefore, when you become angry, ask yourself: “Why am I angry?” “What hurt me?” “What was I expecting from the other person?”
Prayer is the same. Instead of only praying, “Lord, please take away my anger,” we should first tell the Lord honestly why we became angry. “Lord, when that person did not listen to me, I felt ignored. My heart was hurt, and I became angry.” “Lord, I expected others to recognize my effort. But I felt that no one appreciated me, and I became disappointed.” “Lord, I think the wounds from my past are still in my heart. That may be why I reacted so strongly to a small situation today.”
After honestly sharing your heart with the Lord, you can pray: “Lord, please touch the wounds in my heart. Help me not to hide my emotions or express them in a harmful way. Help me express my heart honestly and lovingly. Help me understand and forgive the other person.”
Hiding our emotions is not faith. However, pouring out our emotions without self-control is not the right way either. Sharing your heart means not pouring out your anger, but explaining the reason for your feelings with love. Prayer is the same. Do not only ask the Lord to remove your anger. Tell Him honestly why you became angry. Then the Lord can touch not only your emotions, but also the root of those emotions.
Humans feel emotions and don’t know how to express them, this message shows us how we can share what we feel without hurting the other person. We can express our emotions without being mean to the other person. If we pray and tell God why we feel these emotions instead of pouring it out with disrespect and rudeness then God will help us to control those emotions and help us to let it out in a way that is both good for ourselves and the other person. This message is really useful as these type of emotions appear in relationships and can damage those relationships if the emotions are not expressed in the correct way and this message shows us how to do so. God will always listen to our problems and help us, that’s why we should let out our whole heart to God because God knows what’s best for us and will show us the best solutions because he loves us all.
Jason god bless you हमने इस संदेश से यह सीखा की दूसरे के दोस्त को ना लगे क्योंकि पहले अपने आप को जांच ले तब दूसरे के ऊपर उंगली उठाएं क्योंकि जब हम ही पापी हैं हमारे मन में दूसरे के प्रति क्रोध गुस्सा जलन घमंड भरा हुआ है तो दूसरे की पहले अपने आप को साफ करें तो दूसरे व्यक्ति को हम सीखने और बताएं वचन आज यही बताता है और हमें बुद्धि और समाज विज्ञान प्राप्त देता है आमीन
Jay masiki pastor ji
Mai aap ka thedil se shukriya krti hu kiuki aapne muze is baat ko bohot aache se samjhaya, jis baat ko mai itne dino se smj nhi parhi thi,, ki gusse me me brtaw kaise Krna hai khud pr control kaise Krn hai, apne pita parmeshwar se kaise bolna hai unke saath kaise hme apni baat sanz Krna hai, ye sb kuch itne srl trike se smjane ke liye aapka bohot bohot dhyanwad pastor ji
Aaj ka ye sandesh mujhe bahut si baaton ko batata hai, aur main dhanyawadi hoon ki main inn baaton ke baare mein jaan paayi. Haan hum gussa karte hain aur humein lagta hai, ki ye toh hum apni feelings ko share kar rahe hain, lekin parmeshwar ise pasand nahin karta. Humein gusse ko nahin karna hai aur iska matlab ye bhi nahin hai ki hum baahar se gussa na karein parantu hriday mein durbhavnayein rakhein toh ye bhi galat hai, balki humein uss baat ko jaanna hai ki humein gussa kyon aaya.
Amen
Today this message made me understand that, showing anger doesn’t mean that we are expressing our heart, but we need to examine that what do we do according to the situation. Do we show anger, if yes then what made me anger. Today I learned that Sharing our heart means not pouring out our anger, but explaining the reason for your feelings with love.
Amen
Sameeksha Singh from India
आज के संदेश से मैं गुस्से के बारे मे समझ रख पाई हमें ज्यादा करके गुस्सा पुरानी बातों को जब याद करती थी तब हमें बहुत गुस्सा आती है और हम ज्ञान के अपनी कमी से हमेशा छोटी बड़ी बातें में बेचैन रहती थी चिंता बना रहता था बच्चन पर मन नहीं लगती और प्रार्थना में मन नहीं लगती थी इस सब सो के बहुत गुस्सा आती थी हे प्रभु हमें यह सब नहीं करना चाहिए हमारे दिल के घाव को भर दो हे प्रभु मेरी मदद कीजिए कि हम आपके पूरे ईमानदारी से अपने दिल की बातें पूरी तरह से बता पाएं हम सभी को समझ सके और दूसरों को क्षमा कर सके
मैं यहां संदेश से सीखा कि मैं पहले बहुत गुस्सा करती थी किसी की बात भी नहीं सुनती थी और बस गुस्सा करती थी जब से मैंने वचनों को सुना पिता परमेश्वर प्रभु यीशु मसीह से प्रार्थना की कि मैं गुस्से को दूर कर पाऊ पिता परमेश्वर ने मेरी मदद की गुस्से को दूर करने में अमीन
जय Masih की इस संदेश के द्वारा प्रभू ने जो बात की, की हमेdusaroko ठेस pahuchaye िना apni Dil ki baat प्रेम सेkare our use hum samjhne paye की मेरी ओर से usko thes नहीं pahuche लेकीन हम उससे और अधिक प्रेम रे और उसे समजे
अमीन
Amen 🙏
He prabhu apke wachan ke anusaar ho . Or main apke wachan ke dwara sachai imandari se chalna chahti hu. Or apne papon ki shama mangti hu.
Amen
mene is sundesh se sikha ki jab hame gussa aata hai to hame soch sakte hai ki hame gussa kyu aata hai or ham prathna kar sakte hai ki prbhu hame badal dijiye ki ham guuse ko dur kar sake or ek dusre se Prem rakh sake Amne.
sabhiko jay masih ki 🙏
es vachan ko maine apne jiwan me lagu kiya mujhe gussa ata tha abhitak mai apne atit ko yaad karte huye dukhi hoti hu to kisibhi kaam me mera man nhi lagta nahi vachan padneme nahi gharke kamome
jis vekti ne mere sath or mere pariwar ke sath kiya wo vekti mere samne aakar khadi ho jati hai unhike bareme dinbhar sochti hu or gussa ata hai mujhe
wo vekti meri bhabhi hai or jiske gharme ye jakar baithati thi wo ek basti ki bai hai en donone mera or mere pariwar ka mazak udaya nicha dikhaya pure gaav me hame badnam kiya or pure samajh ke logone en dinoko sath diya ham sabhika mind kharab karke esikaranse mai dukhi hoti hu
par aaj ye sandesh mila maine pada ki aajake baad krodh ke puchhehi bhagana chhod deti hu krodh karke kuchh bhi hasil nhi kar paungi
esiliye maine parmeshwar prathna ki en sabhi chizoko parmeshwar ko bataya or kaha ki en donoko maaf karu aisa vrady banade mai sirf tere pichhe bhagna chahti hu tere vachan par chalna chahti hu tere vachan par manan karna chahti hu mujhe badal de .
or mere man apni shanti de .or prabhu mujhse yehi chahta hai ki mai apna vrady badal du vachan par chalu tabhi mera pariwar me shanti aayegi mera pariwar sukh se rahega parmeshwar mujhe vishwas dena chahta hai
tabhi mai samarth ko prapt kar sakati hu or tabhi or bade bade chinnchamtar karega prabhu mere jiwan me sab chizoko wo thik karna chahta hai
jaha mai rehti hu ye sthan ko badalna chahti hu taki dusari jagga rehnekeliye jaungi to atit ko bhul jaungi or ek achha jiwan jiungi
Amen 🙏❤️🌹